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✓ Completely Private & Confidential | ✓ A Structured Life Reconstruction Experience
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In these deeply immersed one on one coaching sessions, I will guide you to go from living with guilt, shame, resentment, and feelings of inferiority and insecurity as a result of your partners sex addiction and its influence in your life, to a positive and constructive design of living with confidence and an empowered self-image so that you can thrive with greater purpose, clarity, and passion in the most efficient amount of invested time possible.

This is the signature online and interactive coaching program for successful, ambitious men who are putting their career, marriage, and social status at risk because of their porn and sex addiction go from their out-of-control behavior, isolation, shame, and guilt to a significantly improved level of mental and physical health, financial and professional security, and sustainable authentic relationships so that they can thrive as extraordinary individuals.
I only have 5 seats available monthly for this highly transformative and life changing online and interactive coaching program for sexual sobriety.
Please apply first for a 45 minute complimentary sex addiction recovery coaching session and to see if you and I are the right fit for this program.
On a lighter note, here are some fun details you may want to know:
After my release, I immediately started helping people. I sponsor and coach people who are suffering to uncover and discover their inner greatness. This is now my greatest passion. How did I do that?
I have experienced an entire mental shift and miraculous transformation. I have survived and recovered from sex, methamphetamine, and alcohol addiction, homelessness, bankruptcy, loss of a two decade career, 5 years incarceration, suicidal ideation, hopelessness, loneliness, national media humiliation, an eating disorder, obesity, and the death of my mother and father.
Today, at 53 years old, I use my story of change and transformation to benefit and coach others to survive, recover, and be the example that change is possible no matter how far down one has fallen.
Using the knowledge I gained studying and completing my course work, my experience, strength, and hope, I have coached hundreds of men and women in recent years and gratefully witnessed them develop and nurture a complete positive shift in their mindset.


Through my YouTube channel, Spotify, podcasts, The 30-Day Sex Addicts Recovery and Transformation Accelerator Program, Life Coaching, and speaking engagements, I teach people, like you, who are unable to find for themselves emotional richness from emotional bankruptcy, strategies and techniques, that I have mastered, to reach their own wonderful greatness that has been buried and dormant deep within them, until now.
Basically, I can take you from where you are now to a place of confidence and peace of mind.
I have a TON of freebies that will help you break free from sex addiction and a life of unhappiness, and turn your negative thoughts and thinking patterns to feeling like the superstar you are. It's about time...right?
As far as what you can expect from me, I post new YouTube videos every Tuesday, and a new podcast every Thursday on Spotify, and I don't mind saying that they are amazing!
I make all my videos to be super focused on creating massive value for you and your life transformation.
My mission is to help you OWN the real you, the hidden dream-based wonderful creation you are, and champion your life to one which you are successful, peaceful, confident, and serene. Yes, to have a new found belief in your own personal potential and greatness free from your self-made prison, addictions, limited life, and emotional bankruptcy.
Sexual obsessions are recurrent and persistent sexual thoughts, urges, or images that are intrusive and cause distress; Sexual Compulsions are repetitive sexual behaviors that the person uses in response to their obsessions, with the goal of neutralizing the threat and reducing distress—although they do not usually achieve those goals.
Chemical dependency is a compulsion to take a mood-altering chemical such as alcohol, marijuana, cocaine, hallucinogens, methamphetamines, and prescription drugs such as opioids and other medications. These are typically used to enhance sexual pleasure for the sex addict or to eliminate their inhibitions.
Rumination involves repetitive thinking or dwelling on negative feelings and distress and their causes and consequences. The repetitive, negative aspect of rumination can contribute to the development of depression or anxiety and can worsen existing conditions.
While guilt is a normal emotion, a guilt complex refers to the persistent belief that you've done something wrong or the persistent fear that you will do something wrong. It's often the result of past experiences and relationships, and it can have significant negative impacts on a person's mental health and well-being.
Most people experience the emotion of shame in specific situations or after encountering triggers. However, toxic, chronic, or debilitating shame may indicate an underlying mental health condition like anxiety, depression, or self-loathing.
Someone with an inferiority complex might avoid social situations altogether, for fear that they'll never measure up to those around them. This leads to social isolation, which can make self-esteem even worse.
Hopelessness is a feeling of despair or lack of hope that life can feel better than it does. These feelings may make you pull back from your life and avoid doing things you usually enjoy or being with people you love. If hopelessness becomes severe, it can lead to suicidal thoughts.
Behavior is said to be self-sabotaging when it creates problems in daily life and interferes with long-standing goals. The most common self-sabotaging behaviors include procrastination, self-medication with drugs, alcohol, or sex, comfort eating, and forms of self-injury such as cutting.
Chronic fear is living in a constant aroused state of perceived danger. Living in constant fear is not considered normal or healthy. While it's natural to experience fear in certain situations, such as when facing danger, living in a state of constant fear can have negative effects on both mental and physical health by weakening the immune system.
Chronic loneliness is a term to describe loneliness that’s experienced over a long period of time. While loneliness, and chronic loneliness, aren’t specific mental health conditions, they can still affect your mental and general health. Loneliness describes the negative feelings that can occur when your needs for social connection aren’t met.
Maybe you don't have enough information. Many people feel apprehensive at first. Quite frankly, that's why I have implemented a no obligation 45-minute sex addiction recovery life coaching call to see if we are a fit. I understand this is a big decision for you.
Please feel free to read a bit more below and gather more information. Also, keep in mind, this is not therapy, I am not a psychologist.
This is life coaching and when we work together, we will work as a team and we will move forward together in a safe and trusted environment.
After your complimentary introductory coaching call, with absolutely 100% no obligation, you can choose to further your sex addiction recovery coaching with a deeply impactful, highly transformative, and mindset shifting 3-hour sex addiction recovery coaching session experience.
Or, if you qualify for the 30-day sex addicts recovery and transformation accelerator program, we can discuss how you can get started with that significantly transformative experience as we are about to launch its first release ever.
For more about these options, please continue reading.
If you choose to invest in either of these highly impactful coaching programs, it is imperative that you are committed, focused, and prepared for significant life change and massive transformation.
For you to succeed during our free consultation coaching call you're about to apply for, you must be honest, open-minded, and willing to do what it takes to save your self, your marriage or relationship, your career, your family, your life, and your future.

The 3-hour coaching session will be uninterrupted, in depth session that will provide you a radical mindset shift, significant change in your belief system, and an entirely new perspective about yourself, your life, and your future.
In fact, your perception of about your sex addiction, your life pattern, and your internal dialogue will be positively altered.
This session will provide lasting benefits and success in your sex addiction recovery journey.
This full immersion coaching session will provide the change in your thinking that is needed for an immediate radical mindset shift.
Full Immersion one on one coaching over a short "burst" of time will provide you the most effective results in creating a radical shift in your mindset and a positive neurological change in your brain for long-term success.
Your solution is experiencing a neurological mindset shift.
Shifting mindsets means replacing your dysfunctional beliefs with more productive ones that change the options you consider and even your identity.
It is expected that you will experience a sudden mindset shift during this intensive coaching session.
Mindsets can often be boiled down to a single belief. When you have a mindset shift, it will positively influence and alter your identity. You will witness a radical change in your behavioral patterns.

The 30-Day Sex Addicts Recovery and Transformation Accelerator Program is our signature 30-day program and is about to be released for the first time ever.
It includes an intensive online and interactive curriculum, one on one live addiction recovery coaching sessions with coach Rob Lopicola (that's me), weekly live consulting group Q&A calls, an exclusive mastermind of supportive recovering sex addicts working side-by-side where we come together and work together, and so much more.
This intensive proven program will give you a step by step progressive approach to experience significant change within 30-days, strategies that will change your thinking and how your brain functions, and a support system of other amazing men in the program.
You will never be alone.
You will go from where you are now, sex addicted and out of control, where you feel hopeless and desperate, putting your life, marriage, relationships, social status, and career at risk, to a life of sexual sobriety and healthy sexual expression, where you gain control of your mind and body, refocus on your career and financial stability, and improve your marriage or partnership, relationships with friends, family, the community, and, most importantly, yourself.
Trying to gain full control of your life is over!
It is time to successfully do it and achieve it.
Watch my free 30-minute 10-step strategy session, if you hadn't already, before you apply for your 45-minute free coaching call below.

After 12 years of combined coaching, research, education, a long grueling journey of recovery and transformation from sex, meth, and alcohol addiction, and the unwavering awe inspiring spiritual guidance from my teacher and coach, I have created, developed, and mastered the S.S.T. METHOD of recovery.
This provides an amazing and almost miraculous transformation from sex addiction to healthy sexual expression and I am now sharing it with other sex addicts who are seeking their own change and transformation for good.
This online and interactive coaching program is powerfully transformational.
Although you must gain knowledge to grow, you need to learn how to apply that knowledge, actively facilitate it into your life, AND practice and master the skill of application.
You need to experience and master new skills for long term sustainable sobriety and change, and know the systematic strategies step by step for you to rewire your sex addicted brain, recreate how your brain functions, and in the end, transform how you live an function in your mind, your body, and the world around you.
You will recreate an entirely new healthy design for sexual expression.
This S.S.T. METHOD will provide you the way out of your misery and into the light of peace, serenity, and a fulfilled life of sobriety, love, success, and good health.
How?
This program simply shocks the body from its old craving patterns of dopamine and adrenalin recreating a healthy, strong physical experience.
This program dramatically shifts the mindset by recreating new neurological structure for new behavior patterns, thinking and processing information so you can experience healthy sexual expression.
This program transcends your life from old limited beliefs and limited potential to forming new, positive, constructive ideas, perceptions, thoughts, and an entirely new design of living to break the ceiling from your former limited beliefs.
Yes, this program will recreate who you are and how you experience life and sexual experiences.
Using this proven method, I help successful, ambitious men, like you, who are putting their career, marriage, and social status at risk because of their porn and sex addiction, go from their out-of-control behavior, isolation, shame, and guilt to a significantly improved level of mental and physical health, financial and professional security, and sustainable authentic relationships with their partners, friends, and family and experience healthy sexual expression.
These transformed men will thrive as extraordinary individuals.
I can take you to what will work. I offer you the skills, strategies, and techniques I mastered along the way.
In time, you will have the ability to control yourself in all situations, and you will move forward consciously and steadily towards your goals with confidence.
You will know your purpose, and you will have the self-discipline needed to do things in a deliberate, focused, and honorable way.
You are worth having this and it is possible for you.

YOU WILL SUCCEED FURTHER PROFESSIONALLY

YOU WILL IMPROVE YOUR INCOME POTENTIAL

YOU WILL BUILD LOVING LASTING RELATIONSHIPS
"Rob is a true professional in the field of transforming lives. I signed up for health coaching and ended up getting a life transformation. Not only has my fitness level improved significantly, but also my self confidence, self esteem, inner peace.... my smile. I truly believe he was a God send."
"In my time with Robert, he has helped me to determine the true cause of my overindulgence with food. He has helped me to discover myself. He encourages me beyond my own vision. When I need Robert to be hard on me, he’s hard on me, but when I need Robert to be gentle he knows when to be gentle. I always feel welcome and loved when working with Robert! Never once have I felt any kind of judgement."
"Rob is an incredible coach with an amazing ability to motivate and heal emotional and spiritual issues. One of a kind and I am lucky to be coached by him."
"My outlook on life and my own personal journey has grown tremendously. I have a different perspective and can thank Rob for showing me the way. On my own, I would have thrown in the towel. I am glad Rob is by my side to coach me and lead me through my transformation journey."
"The amount of progress I have seen for myself in the short time I've been working with Rob is astounding. He has a great way of pushing you to your full potential!"
"If you are looking to change your life, tired of the same day to day with little to no change? Reach out to Rob! He will push you in a direction that makes you want to come back for more."
" I can not recommend Rob's transformation programs enough. He will push you past your comfort zone, but listen and be honest with you when you need to take it easy. Working with him was the best investment I could have made in myself, and directly impacted the success of my business. He is an inspiration and transformation professional."
"Over the past 3 months, Rob has changed my life in so many ways. He has pushed me hard and challenged me to transform my life emotionally and physically. I feel better than I’ve felt in years."
"The day Rob started coaching me is the day my life started to take a turn. This is an awesome man. I don't think there was anyone else in the world that could have helped me the way that he has."
"Rob is motivating and a great teacher. He has helped me to realize I can do it! That little push is all I need to hear because he knows I will do it. Thank You Rob! I am stronger than I ever thought I would be at my age of 67."
"Some days are harder to get motivated than others, but days like this show the hard work and guidance from Rob is worth the effort. Thank you Rob for showing me the way to succeed."
"Rob holds me accountable and that's what keeps me going and that's what I like most about coaching with him. He helps me with all aspects of life."
"Rob is by far one of the best coaches around. He’s knowledgeable, confident, and brutally honest! He will tell you what you need to hear not what you want to hear!"
"I’ve been with him for 3 months and he is firm but motivating and encouraging, never allowing me to quit."

Use your time to build healthy relationships and experience authentic love with integrity
You will no longer live in the fantasy of pornography or other sexual vices but be open, available, and present to experience true love and intimacy. You will experience healthy sexual expression free from shame, guilt, and isolation.
Smash through your professional limits and rise to a new level of financial freedom
You will have a significant increase in available time and focus to further your career and expand your income potential.
Create a peaceful, healthy existence and build the life you absolutely love
You will no longer live with secrets, shame, and guilt as you experience peace and freedom and a deep love of life and good health.
Transform your life in as little as 30 days and thrive as a healthy individual
Your Sex Addiction is self-treatable when you understand and apply the proven strategies needed to transform your life from one that is sex addicted to one of strength and power in the most efficient amount of time - 30 days.
Find and embrace sexual sobriety from the ease and privacy of your own home
You can discover and entirely new design of living with sexual sobriety and experience your transformation without going to a treatment center or therapist.
I created an online interactive 30-day Accelerator Program that will transform your life from the comfort of your own home in the most efficient amount of time and energy.
This is the one and only signature program of Academy of Life Change Coaching and Consulting for the suffering porn and sex addict who fears there is no way out.
There is a way out and you have found the solution to your problem right here. This is the new opportunity you have been waiting for!
There is no other opportunity like this one.
This new opportunity will transform your life in as little as 30 days using the shock, shift, transcend method I created.
This is a strategic step by step system that will free you from a sex addicted life to one where you will recreate your mind, radically change your thinking, and transcend your life to new heights before you lose your partner, career, security, and reputation.
This hybrid online and interactive 30-day course will break the spell and power of what you have been suffering with.
You have been progressively destroying your life because of your porn and sex addiction or compulsive sexual behavior.
This course will take ambitious men, like you, out of the misery of their addiction and into a life where they are mentally and physically healthy, financially and professionally secure, and capable of sustaining authentic healthy relationships.
You will experience a radical mindset shift from destructive and compulsive sexual behaviors to experiencing healthy sexual expression and in control of your sexual choices.
The men who complete the course will come out of it as thriving and extraordinary individuals.

More about the accelerator program
My name is Rob Lopicola. I'm part of a group of men who are unique in today's sexual culture and a group you've probably never heard of. We don't trust and rely on the idea that it always has to be the way it has always been.
In fact, our motivation is the exact opposite. We have a transformational journey that we know can change the life of any man battling with sex addiction. Because we are fighting a disease millions suffer with and too ashamed to talk about publicly, we have to do things differently.
We have to be more open and honest with ourselves if we are to change, one man at a time. So, how do we do that? How is that even possible?
If you look at the sex addiction recovery rate and the numbers of men thinking of and attempting suicide all around the world because of their sex addiction, you would think change is impossible. Yet is is happening.
It's happening through the healing process that we call the The 30-Day Sex Addicts Recovery and Transformation Accelerator Program.
We are the Warriors of Change.
Rob Lopicola has a reputation of changing and transforming lives today. His story is inspiring many to change and transform as he has. Lopicola, a former WPTV weatherman, shares his story of how he fell from grace and then rose from the ashes.
Within the pages of his latest book, Lopicola shares his truths and from all he learned and gained from the pain and loss. His experience is extensive. A man who was once a rising star, taken down to his knees by addiction, humiliated by his actions, locked away behind bars for five years, mocked and ridiculed, shunned by the media, and lost his mother one year prior to his release.
Rob Lopicola chose a new path, a new design for living, and chose to use his life story as lessons to glean from for others to find their way. He also uses the lessons of his past to never return to that course of life again!
Rob Lopicola has included in his book “10 fundamental Laws for Success,” where you will learn how to take what you have with where you are and succeed no matter the challenge. These are ten laws which will change and transform your life. There is an old design for living which fail most people and there is a new design for living which will free almost anyone from the prison of their own mind.
There is more in his book, including, how to rebuild your life when it seems all the odds are against you, five keys to unlock your greatness, five phases of recovery from any addiction, and five keys to a strong, lean body and healthy living. A total of 20 keys which will significantly transform your life to one filled with good health, success, and happiness.
Rob Lopicola has developed these 20 keys which will undeniably unlock the greatness in you and change your entire life.
One day Rob Lopicola was an award-winning weatherman, the next, he was a homeless addict being sentenced to serve 60 months in prison. In prison, Rob discovered just how toxic his mindset was and just how much it was impacting his life.
So, Rob Lopicola befriended a man named Tony, who taught him an entirely new design for living that works. Once Rob began to build a new mindset actively with the guidance of Tony, things changed. He started a journey that showed him how his mind affected his body and spirit, and he set out to change. As a result, Rob has gone from a conviction to redemption, and he is keen to help others along the way. In the pages of his latest book, he gives his inspirational story and how he gained self-mastery.
His second chance at life came with a total transformation with how he lived. He began to live his life focused on his mental, physical and spiritual well-being. Rob began to take the steps he had learned in recovery and the spiritual guidance from his mentor to turn his life around.
Rob understood that his mental and spiritual condition needed to match his physical condition. As a result, he developed coping mechanisms to help him in his daily life and realized that he could help others who were struggling too! Rob stood by the theory that physical transformation has to go hand in hand with the change and transformation of a person's mental and spiritual well-being.
Post-traumatic growth is the experience of positive change after going through a significantly stressful event. Researchers have discovered five common themes that people tend to report after experiencing a significant stressful event. The Art of Self Mastery has the formula for successfully climbing through and out of traumatic situations.
Rob Lopicola certainly faced dire consequences following his addictions, destructive and selfish behavior, and criminal activity. Although Lopicola is responsible for his lifestyle at the time of his arrest and had to face the consequences, he had an opportunity for change. The significantly stressful event of prison opened the door for Lopicola to experience positive change. The five common themes for those who face a significantly stressful event are as follows:
1. Renewed appreciation for life
2. Enhanced personal strength
3. Stronger, more meaningful relationships
4. Spiritual Growth
5. Recognizing new paths for life
He is an inspiration for those who are battling with addictions and negativity in their lives. Rob is a beacon of hope. He shows that redemption is offered to all who are willing to do what it takes to transform and create for themselves a life of self-mastery. Rob knows the pain and damage that a toxic mindset can have on your life, and he also knows how to turn it around.
Rob Lopicola has skillfully combined his experience, strength, and hope of change and transformation into this masterpiece. You are not your mistakes. Control your destiny and transform your life today! This book, The Art of Self-Mastery, is one of the most elegantly written works of this era.
As an Inspirational Speaker, Rob Lopicola takes motivation speaking to the next level. Rob’s personal life is a testimony to the human spirit. His compelling tale of inspiration cannot help but make audiences look at the big picture of their own lives, encouraging them to aspire to be the best version of themselves.
Having Lopicola speak to your employees, members, or staff will help them to transform their minds. They will be inspired to grow from a state of mediocrity, or less, to achieving greatness in health, wealth, and happiness.
Rob Lopicola is one of the leading experts and experienced coaches of this new era. Times have changed and mindset change is needed now more than ever before. His personal experience, as well as his professional credentials, and testimonials which precede him, support his ability to change and transform lives.
Lopicola is a leader and an expert in the field of fitness, nutrition, and mindset change. Reach out to Him for speaking at your business, event, conference, or club. He will inspire and motivate.

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